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Showing posts with label parents. Show all posts
Showing posts with label parents. Show all posts

Wednesday, January 29, 2014

Focus on the Behavior, Not the Argument

A parent's job is to teach, guide, direct, and protect their children. At times, this job
description may require different actions on a parent's part when it comes to addressing the needs of their child. For example, if a child is staying out past curfew that would be a directing moment(when to come home and what consequences will be if late) more than a teaching moment(explaining the dangers and problems of staying out late). Furthermore, the longer the discussion goes on about the why it is important to obey curfew, the longer the child will feel this expectation is negotiable. Children do not have to agree with a rule, just understand the need to follow it. The longer you get caught up in the argument, the less effective you will be in addressing the behavior.

Sunday, January 5, 2014

Parents in action: Deciding if your relationship is ready for a child

 It can also put an incredible strain on one that's not ready for the challenges that come with raising a child. You have to ask yourself: how will a baby affect your finances, your spare time and your future goals?The decision to have a baby is a huge one for couples---it can make a strong relationship even
better.  click for more